1) People forget that once they post on social media, it stays on the World Wide Web forever.
There is no backspace to the Internet. Even when something appears to be off of your computer screen or no longer on your Facebook wall, it is still out there. Someone may have taken a screenshot and saved it on their computer. Someone may have saved the IP address. Even if you did manage to take down the information, it is still floating around in the unknown world of the WWW, something that very few people tend to remember. Someone out there can still access that deleted information, even if the original post appears to have been deleted. In addition to this, people often agree to have their information shared or their name used without even knowing it. The following is an example of the fine print of Facebook, something that most people do not even think twice about reading:
This is just one example of how the inforamtion you share is not entirely yours, and you often do not have control over who sees it or uses it once it is posted.
2) People do not think long term about the impact of their social media posts.
I'll be the first to say, I have posted some questionable things on social media. Whether it was a strong opinion or a picture that made it look like I was in the wrong place at the wrong time, most people tend to have some regrets about their social media posts. One example is posting a picture where you appear to be intoxicated on social media. Let's say you are a 20 year old girl having fun at party, drinking lemonade out of a red cup and someone snaps a photo and posts it on Facebook. Even though you weren't drinking under age, it may appear that way. Many company search Facebook and other social media sites when looking for new hires. If they see that you were "drunk" underage, they may be less likely to hire you. In any case, most people post thinking only about the present, when social media has a great impact on your future.
3) People post before they think.
This goes along with the last point, but continues to deeper meaning. Many people will post their thoughts or pictures to appear "cool" or make themselves a part of conversation. People want to post anything and everything that they are doing, searching for self-reassurance through likes or comments on social media. By doing this, many poeple sometimes post information or pictures that should be kept private, not thinking about the consequences of the post. If people are under the influence of alcohol or drugs, they may post something that they would not normally post. Bad news- once it's out there, it is out there for good.

I think you are completely right on with how people think and act on social mediums. There are so many mistakes that have become public. Kids are growing up with the ability to post every thought that comes to them. As a result there is a huge learning curve when discovering what to post and what not to post. There are dangers in communicating through social media as well or even through texting. There are countless stories that not only I have, but so many of my friends have of accidentally sending the wrong text to the wrong person. It is a horrifying experience, one that has literally made me crumble to the floor with both dread, embarrassment and extreme laughter when it comes to others mistakes. The things is that these mistakes are permanent. There is not deleting a text once it is send. You can delete a post, but likely not before an entire range of people notice it. And like you said nothing is every really deleted online. Everything you put out there even as a child learning the ropes has the potential to be with you forever. As a result of course no one things long term! We all post things of our social lives that when an employer may go to look at your Facebook page would be horrified to see. That is why we try to clean up our profiles before a job interview. The simplest red solo cup is judged poorly. I don't think a lot of people realize just how many people will view your page and just how many people have access to your profile. It is easy to get caught up in the moment and want to share things. People post things when they are drunk all the time and for that reason people post before they think. This causes almost all the problems you have stated because if people would just think through their posts they would save themselves a lot of future and present trouble! :)
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